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partly rhetorical question?

When you are spooned up behind your lover in bed at night, what do you do with your bottom arm if your lover is not laying on it? Sometimes I wish I had detachable arms.

Wander

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ledaire
Apr. 21st, 2003 08:49 am (UTC)
Slip your arm thru the space between her neck and the pillow. It will help if you are above her enough to rest your chin on her head. That can get the weight off your arm and keep your bod somewhat aligned.
I personally cant sleep with my arm out like that when I'm spooning, so I tuck my arm (top part) comfortably in front of me and wrap my forearm up and over my tummy.
wander
Apr. 21st, 2003 08:57 am (UTC)
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Me too. But sometimes my arm falls asleep in the middle of the night and I wake up feeling like a large snake is resting between us.

Like I said, it was partly rhetorical. We humans are not built right sometimes.

Wander
green_noise
Apr. 21st, 2003 08:58 am (UTC)
I popped in here to suggest the exact same thing... but seeing that it's already been said quite well once, I'll just say "I agree".
ledaire
Apr. 21st, 2003 09:05 am (UTC)
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~grin~
I feel kindof silly saying this, but it seems to me that only people who dont have alot of muscle mass sleep comfortably tucking the arm.
wander
Apr. 21st, 2003 09:16 am (UTC)
My ex-wife was just the right size to sleep on top of me all night so we never had that problem. Not that Deb is too heavy, just a little taller and that seems to make a huge difference.

Wander
cuddles
Apr. 21st, 2003 09:04 am (UTC)
I groop boobs. That's not really a major revelation though. If I can't get to the boobs with the bottom arm I just grab her ass all night.

Later

Cuddles
ledaire
Apr. 21st, 2003 09:12 am (UTC)
As usual, thanks for the laugh :)
cuddles
Apr. 21st, 2003 10:54 am (UTC)
I do what I can.

Later

Cuddles
wander
Apr. 21st, 2003 09:16 am (UTC)
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Now there's a good solution too.

Wander

cuddles
Apr. 21st, 2003 10:54 am (UTC)
Of course it came from me! God I'm full of it today.

Later

Cuddles
wander
Apr. 21st, 2003 11:02 am (UTC)
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And here you thought you were going to quit LJ.

sucker

Wander
alchemist
Apr. 21st, 2003 09:56 am (UTC)
Amen, brother. And we're of similar enough height that the other suggestion of slipping it under her pillow doesn't work well.

I like the grope idea, but that's also a good way to get a beating, depending on the timing *grin*
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