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The Psycho has struck again

Today Deb told her Mom to come by and get her cat carrier which we had borrowed some time ago. Bitch came over, stole 3 beers and left the damn cat carrier. Tomorrow I'm taking the cat carrier over and setting it on her porch. Then I'm going home and changing the front door lock. Not even going to bother with asking her for her key (which I honestly forgot she had). So next time she decides to stop by when we are not home and help herself to our stuff, she will find a locked door. Then let her call and explain why she thought she needed to get into our house. I can get someone else to come over and feed the cats when we are gone damnit! Or just leave them enough food to get through the weekend.



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May. 10th, 2006 11:43 pm (UTC)
> Not even going to bother with asking her for her key

Good... because she could always get a duplicate made.
May. 10th, 2006 11:52 pm (UTC)
Exactly what I was thinking. Plus it gives her the opportunity to make up another lie to cover her behavior if I ask for the key. And I don't feel I need to discuss it with her.

May. 11th, 2006 12:15 am (UTC)
You should definitely find someone else to do anything that she might be doing right now. Keep her away from your property as much as possible.
May. 11th, 2006 02:32 pm (UTC)
Yep, Deb called her on it. Called her up and said, "So why didn't you pick up the cat carrier when you were over here drinking our beer today?" Before thinking about it, Annette said, "I didn't realize I'd left the cat carrier until I was most of the way home." They had a bit of a fight about it so I won't put it past her to dream up some kind of retaliation.

May. 11th, 2006 04:24 am (UTC)
Remember what we talked about?
Two words... restraining order.

You could also file a police report or something. Relative or not, what she's doing is called "theft". It's a sad sad thing that a family member would even think of doing that let alone a mother to her own child. Tsk. I could say other things but...I'll shush now, because I love you and I love Deb.

May. 11th, 2006 02:36 pm (UTC)
Changing the locks should take care of it. We don't have anything outside that would be easy to pick up and carry off. Annette goes for the easy stuff to steal. If it escalates past this, I'll involve the police but not until.

May. 11th, 2006 11:37 am (UTC)
Yeah, change the locks definitely. That's is just too sad for words that she has to do that to her own daughter.
May. 11th, 2006 02:43 pm (UTC)
As I said to another comment. Annete does not see people as people. She sees them as a means to an end. I beleive you call that a sociopath.

May. 11th, 2006 04:51 pm (UTC)
I just hope she doesn't get desperate and decide to break in!
May. 11th, 2006 05:03 pm (UTC)
If she does, she will be seeing the inside of the police station.

May. 11th, 2006 06:44 pm (UTC)
oh goodness I have been reading your posts...change that lock asap, what a nightmare. She's nuts, wait a minute...change your locks now!
May. 11th, 2006 06:59 pm (UTC)
Bought the lock today. Will be changing it tomorrow.

May. 16th, 2006 06:51 pm (UTC)
As to the cats....
I leave mine for 2 days almost every week.
I just leave several bowls of water (because one cat likes to spill them) plenty of dry food and a 2 clean litter boxes. I never leave them for more than 2 nights and 3 days, though. Worst case scenario cats can survive for 3 days without food and water without it causing permanent harm to them.
Fortuneatly cats don't eat all the food in one sitting like a dog would so this works pretty well.
May. 16th, 2006 07:02 pm (UTC)
Our cat Peeker that we lost in March was really the only cause for concern. If he did not have an absolutely clean litterbox he would crap all over the place. And he was big on the ritual of being fed. He could have a bowl full of food but if you didn't go out first thing in the morning abd about 6 pm and put foood in the bowl, he would not eat. Our other two do not have these issues so we could even leave them for a long weekend with plenty of food and water and they would be fine.

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