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Surreal Christmas

When I left Illinois 2 days ago it was 4 degrees out. I'm sitting at Mom and Dad's house on the Coast of NC (ocean is 1/4 mile away)and it's at least in the 50's out there if not warmer. 4 family members of people close to me have passed on in the last 2 weeks. I'm typing with frostbite on 3 fingers of my right hand which I'm now convinced is the Universe's way of telling me there are some things that cannot just be ignored. We are hoping my brother will be able to get on his flight out of Seattle and join us tonight. Debra has not called me to tell me whether she made her train from Joliet, IL to go down and see her Dad's family in Macomb, IL. Her Dad just called to say she didn't get off the train in Macomb and no one can reach her either by cell or by land line. At least I know the weather has improved a bit there. The folks are playing Christmas music and I just heard a song by Martin Mull about how Santa doesn't get stoned on Christmas. I swear my life is nothing if not interesting. Sometimes I wish I was an ostrich and could just stick my head in the sand and let life go by.

Happy Holidays everyone!

Wander

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brotherskeeper1
Dec. 24th, 2008 08:09 pm (UTC)
Merry Christmas!
redsgoddes
Dec. 24th, 2008 08:56 pm (UTC)
Happy Holidays to you and your parents, Mark. Hope Deb is ok and arrives at her dads safely.

beautyofgrey
Dec. 25th, 2008 01:19 am (UTC)
Merry Christmas, Mark! I hope things get better from this point forward.
cowboyjesus
Dec. 25th, 2008 05:29 am (UTC)
Merry Christmas, Mark. Hope your hand heals up well.
celestialmarvel
Dec. 25th, 2008 04:45 pm (UTC)
WOw...you certainly do lead an interesting life.

Take care my friend, especially those fingers and have a great holiday!!!
jelly_fish
Dec. 25th, 2008 09:22 pm (UTC)
Haven't looked at Lj for a while.
Take care of yourself! I know you have to be on the upward swing now. Just have to endure that frostbite. Ouch! I know that is painful.
Here is wishing you only wonderful, joyous things for the rest of your Hoilidays!!
tomyris_beat
Dec. 26th, 2008 06:24 pm (UTC)
Hope Deb's ok and Christmas got less Surreal as time went by...we had a good time here. Mom is doing good, stayed with us Christmas Eve and had a fun Christmas morning. Steve-Tracie et. al are doing well. K
invisibella
Dec. 28th, 2008 12:28 am (UTC)
I hope you had a great holiday.

The frostbite caught my eye the first time you mentioned it. So, I pulled out Your Body Speaks Your Mind to have a look.

I think you are correct that this is Universe sending a message - especially since you are a healer and it's affecting your hands. The fingers stretch out to the world and get damaged before the rest of your body.

In the book I looked up fingers and burns. From what I gather there's a few thoughts. Are you extending yourself too far right now or going out on a limb for something/someone? Are you trying to heal something or someone that isn't willing or just isn't ready? Overall this seems to indicate that while your heart and intentions are good, the energy isn't being well received.

Sending healing energy your way and wishing you safe travel...
wander
Dec. 28th, 2008 05:25 am (UTC)
Yes, yes and yes. Thanks for your thoughts friend.

W
iamcyber
Dec. 29th, 2008 06:21 am (UTC)
How's the frostbite? Better and all healthy underneath, I hope?

Martin Mull did a Christmas song?!?! o_O

If you hid your head in the sand, you wouldn't be able to see and capture such COOL photos of things!!!
wander
Jan. 4th, 2009 11:48 pm (UTC)
I know. I was just feeling sorry of myself that day. The skin is falling/peeling off now. Looks like good skin underneath.

W
iamcyber
Jan. 4th, 2009 11:50 pm (UTC)
Glad to hear there's no infection or gangrene...that would've been a terrible start to 2009.
wander
Jan. 4th, 2009 11:53 pm (UTC)
I've been taking pictures of the various stages. I was thinking from the doctor's description that the skin would get all slimy and fall off but really it's just like a callous over my whole finger/thumbprint that is peeling off. Not so gross as I thought.

W
iamcyber
Jan. 4th, 2009 11:54 pm (UTC)
"This is what happens when you get frostbite." series? ;D
wander
Jan. 5th, 2009 01:03 am (UTC)
Or "Reason # 321 not to touch cold metal in the Winter"

W
nebraska_slakes
Jan. 2nd, 2009 08:29 pm (UTC)
Three I know have passed in the last three months. Not as bad as your record, but still distressing.
wander
Jan. 4th, 2009 11:47 pm (UTC)
I'd say Winter time is bad on the old folks but at least one of mine was a young person. Younger than us.

W
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